Ayun, napanood ko kanina sa The Buzz ang interview ni Ruffa Gutierrez. Ayun cry-cry siya dun habang iniiwasan nyang masagi ng panyo niya
na galing pa yata kay Mayor Vi ang mga fake eyelashes niya. Pero siempre ma-poise pa rin siya…at dapat lang no. Basta ang alam ko being beautiful is the best revenge. May kilala nga ako kada break-up niya sa mga nagiging boyfriend niya, nagpapa-make-over. Kaya lalo siyang gumaganda. Hindi ko na lang sasabihin kung sino kasi unang-una hindi niyo naman siya kilala, at pangalawa hindi naman siya sikat artista.
Naubusan na yata ng hangin ang utak ko at wala na akong masyadong matandaan doon sa interview. Nagbo-blow kasi kami ng mga lobo para sa Nanay ko, Mother’s Day kasi. Happy Mother’s Day kung meron mang mga nanay na naligaw dito.
Anyway, basta ang natatandaan ko, noong tinanong ni Boy for the first time kung sinasaktan ba ni Ylmaz si Ruffa, sinundan ng isa sa mga baduy na patalastas ng TFC. Noong tinanong na siya ni Boy ulit (pang 1, 001 na yatang inulit-ulit ni Boy) kung sinasaktan ba siya ni Ylmaz, tahimik lang siya.
Question lang: ito ba ang tinatawag nilang “silence means yes” or baka ayaw lang talagang sagutin ni Ruffa? Kasi siempre pag hindi mo sinagot at bigla ka na lang lumuha diyan, sari-saring pananaw ang madidilig ng mga luha mo at magususulputan ang mga milyon-milyong speculations ng mga tao na parang mga kabute.
Eto naman pala ang special statement ni Ylmaz na ninakaw ko pa mula DITO.
To the public opinion of Philippines,
I had made one of the two most important decisions in human life on the date of 25.03.2003 and I married Ruffa Gutierrez, and I owe to my wife’s father who has been supporting this excellent start; in my own life I follow the lead of this respectful man who has all the characteristics and ethics of behaving decently.
On the date of 08.05.2007, I was obliged to give the second most important decision in human life; divorce. Unfortunately, the cause of this decision was one again my wife’s close relations and one materialist relative of her who take advantage over my wife and who have poor conscience and honor.
Having an affair with another person is definitely not included among the reasons. I have always been faithful during the relation I had with my wife.
When I was 22 years old I met her, loved her with all my heart for 7 years, I had departed many of my principles for her and we got married. Leaving my beloved ones after having two great children due to such ridiculous reasons can not be discussed.
Apart from the love of GOD I have in my heart, there is not any love I feel but the love and affection I have for Ruffaya and our children.
However only my honor and pride are above my affection for my family, my love and everything I know. I prefer living a chival rous but difficult short life instead of living a famed but dishonored life full of earthly goods of the pompous world.
As I respect visions of everybody, I request the respect of others. The divorce decision is an ultimatum to my wife. This is not a result but a decision and I wished this could be considered as an ultimatum and existing problems and umbrages could be settled in cooperation within the family members.
However, her family and close relations made the situation even worse instead of being constructive. Ruffa is unable to show enough attention to her family due to her own professional career and profession and she extended her stay in Philippines without my consent are the only causes of our decision for getting divorced; subsequently a series of mutual negative psychological and physical violence and suppression events experienced brought the busting up of this happy family.
Ruffa consciously and willingly laid the ground for the beginning of this decline with the support of her family and without feeling the need of soul searching.
However, my innocent daughters aged 2 and 3 are under a heavy burden due to meaningless decisions taken in eagerness for fame without making soul searching and in my opinion this is not fair.
I would like to remind that those children are not eager for fame or money. The most important wish of a child is seeing parents together who have brought him/her into this world without asking the child.
On her announcement, Ruffa mentioned the cultural differences and put forward it as an excuse, this is strange; moreover the fact that she has noticed the cultural difference after 7 years is even stranger. Love and truth do not have one religion, language and culture.
I share all my views with Turkish and Philippines media and public because I want to explain the seemingly fabulous worlds of fame are actually very dark and their price is nothing but destruction and sadness first of all to my own children and then to Turkish and Philippines community.
Furthermore, as being a media boss, I would like to remind the force of media that is being considered to be the 3rd power of the world to all members of media; the pens in your hands might turn into the most dangerous weapon if used recklessly.
Therefore, please use your pens courageously for focusing on actual problems of mankind such as poverty, wars, inequality and injustice instead of taking up such popular gossips that are not needed by mankind.
Due to such gossip news, 90% of the new generation brought up with the television culture prefers fame instead of professions that work for the wellbeing of science, enlightenment and mankind.
Unless we use our power of discourse justly, poverty, unfounded wars and deaths, unemployment, economical inequality shall go no deepening and spreading.
Presidents and governors coming out at the majority shall not provide any advantage for their own country or for the mankind, and probably each of them will be replaced by actors, sportsman created by you who do not have the knowledge and qualifications of governing a country as well as puppet colonizer leaders directed by other countries.
These shall only work for the benefits of banks located Switzerland. For all countries, I hope those new generations, especially my own children can become individuals of genuine fame. Like Einstein, Leonardo Da Vinci, Hugo, Beethoven, Edison, Stephen Hawking, Gandhi, Shakespear.
Finally, when it comes to getting divorced with Ruffa; arrangements to be made once we give our final positive or negative decision as two civilized individuals shall be carried out by our attorneys.
I assure you that I will do my best so that I can protect this home for the sake of my children. I call for prays of individuals respecting the family concept so that I can protect this home.
Regardless of all negative aspects of life, I will never forget your hospitality towards me and your smiles I had experienced for 7 years. Philippines shall always live in my heart as my second fatherland.
Sa totoo lang, kalahati ng mga sinabi niya hindi ko ma-gets. Alam ko naman na hinde English ang first language niya, pero sana naman bago siya naglabas ng official statement kagaya nito, pinacheck muna niya sa mga bihasang mag-Ingles. Siguro naman sa yaman niyang iyon can afford naman siyang mag-hire ng taong gagawa `nun no? Unless, gusto lang talaga nyang maging matalinhaga ang dating niya.
Pero kahit hindi ako fan ni Ruffa, kung totoo mang sinaksaktan siya ng asawa niya, I applaud her for getting out. There’s never an excuse to hit another human being. As in none.
Abangan na lang natin kung ano na ang mangyayari…